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I am looking to buy my first hangun. The main use will be for home defense but I would like to do some target practice as well. I would like something that my wife could handle as well.

I guess the first thing I would like to know is the pros and cons of pistols and revolvers? What would be a good caliber.
What is a good quality brand to look for. I prefer American made products.

Thanks for your help.